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schizophrenicchildren said: But you’re a cute ginger


you’re kind. i’m not so sure i agree, but thank you!

and-swim-when-it-hurts said: haha, i think its weird. like….i don’t know. I’ve never been like ‘oh i’m into him because he’s ginger’ its like i like someone and oh they happen to be ginger. and it used to be weird & if i dated a ginger i got made fun of, now its all weird haha


i couldn’t every date a ginger, we all look related and that would just be too weird. i just don’t understand. 


killtheidols said: I was except for the being ginger.. I was just fat.. but that’s never been trending haha




give it time, harry, give it time.

killtheidols said: kids made fun of nerdy people with glasses and nerdy clothes and apparently they are now the bomb…


i was all three as a kid. i must have been the holy grail.

and-swim-when-it-hurts said: haha..i think its odd too. I’ve always had a thing for gingers apparently without realizing it, like people would point it out. but in high school I got made fun of so bad for dating guys that looked like ‘opie’ from andy griffith haha…


i’m just confused. when i was a kid everybody made fun of redheads and seemed to really want to make a point to let us know how strange we were. now red-heads are suddenly some oddly idolized thing. it makes me uncomfortable. 

we’re just people. really strange looking people. 


this whole recent obsession

the world has with gingers is really starting to weird me out. 

collectively we are not an attractive bunch. 

that is an understatement. 

for every 1 attractive ginger, there are 10000000 ugly ones. 

i just call it like i see it. 

every odd number

harry, you’re a goon and i love you.

1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someone’s eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someone’s eyes when they are telling you how they feel?

I’m pretty awkward with both, but i think having someone look me in the eyes when they’re trying to be nice to to me is more difficult. i feel really uncomfortable when that happens.

3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them? 

why the hell was i in hawaii? anyway, the first people that come to mind are my parents, i would thank them and tell them i love them.

5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust.

generally trust is more important to me.

7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most? 

those tend to be the same person. i don’t think i can honestly answer this question.

9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?

i barely knew her, i didn’t like her, but i’ve long since come to terms with my own mortality and would give her the hour and lose a year. i’ve already had more years than she had.

11. Does love = sex? 

absolutely not. 

13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?

it’s been a long time, it was neither nice or good and does not need repeated. 

15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?

my family is the only thing i’m that attached to. anything else is trivial.

17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why?

i don’t like the idea of changing things, things are as they are. 

19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?

i don’t know cpr, but if it would save them and i knew it of course i would. 

21.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?

what in the hell?!

23. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?

i don’t do nice things because i expect anything back. 

25.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?

no clue. 


thank you harry!


i know if i'm lucky one person will ask one, i'm just insanely bored.
1. What is more difficult for you, looking into someones eyes when you are telling someone how you feel, or looking into someones eyes when they are telling you how they feel?
2. Think of the last time you were REALLY angry. WHY were you angry? Do you still feel the same way?
3. You are on a flight from Honolulu to Chicago non-stop. There is a fire in the back of the plane. You have enough time to make ONE phone call. Who do you call? What do you tell them?
4. You are at the doctor’s office and he has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? What do you do with your remaining days? Would you be afraid?
5. You can have one of the following two things. Which do you choose? Why? Love and Trust.
6. You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late even once more, you are fired. Do you take the time to save the dogs life? Why or Why not?
7. Would you rather be hurt by the one you trust the most or the one you love the most?
8. Your best friend confesses that he/she has feelings for you more than just friendship. He/she is falling in love with you. What do you (or did you) do/say?
9. Think of the last person who you know that died. You have the chance to give them 1 hour of life back, but you have to give up one year of yours. Do you do it? Why or Why not?
10. Are you the kind of friend that you would want to have as a friend?
11. Does love = sex?
12.Your boss tells your coworker that they have to let them go because of work shortage, and they are the newest employee. You have been there much longer. Your coworker has a family to support and no other means of income. Do you go to your boss and offer to leave the company? Why or Why not?
13.When was the last time you told someone HONESTLY how you felt regardless of how difficult it was for you to say? Who was it? What did you have to tell the person?
14. What would be (or what was) harder for you to tell a member of the opposite sex, you love them or that you do not love them back?
15. What do you think would be the hardest thing for you to give up? Why would it be hard to lose?
16. Excluding romantic love, when was the last time you told someone you loved them. Who were they to you?
17. If there was one moment and one time in the last month what would you change and why?
18.Imagine it is a dark night, you are alone, it is raining outside, you hear someone walking around outside your window. WHO do you wish was there with you?
19. Would you give a homeless person CPR if they were dying? Why or Why not?
21.You are holding onto your grandmother’s hand and the hand of a newborn that you do not know as they hang over the edge of a cliff. You have to let one go to save the other. Who do you let fall to their death? What was your rationale for making the decision?
22. Are you old fashioned?
23. When was the last time you were nice to someone and did NOT expect anything in return for it?
24.Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all? Why?
25.If you could do anything or wish anything, what would it be?
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i’m going to get a haircut tomorrow,

i’ll look like a choch.